Nervous when dealing with your first date this time? Did your crush say YES for a date with you but you are too tense to start doing the things needed to do? Don’t you worry now because we have compiled these step by step guide that will automatically run down on what you are going to expect and needed to accomplish so you can shine and impressed your date from the moment you start the conversation.
#1. Always be ready when the time demand to.
For the women, if you want the guy to fetch you in your house, then you need to wake up early and get ready before he comes if you want him to open the door and think highly of you like WOW. But also, you need to do this without even looking like you are trying too hard. Most guys like girls who prefer simple things or simple gestures. You can start to strike him directly with the balance by pairing your cutest jeans with an off-the-shoulder tee or a simple strappy tank to look simple but classy. Something like that which is showing a little skin and not too much than your usual will definitely notice you even more without any malice. Give yourself an extra 30 minutes to get ready, so you don’t have to rush or make him wait. For guys, for sure if this is their first date, they don’t want to be late in the said time arrangement with you to avoid complications or issues later on.
#2. Just calm down and shake off all the jitters in your body.
For a girl or a guy, even if either of you have already talk all the time whether in a friend’s circle or in your school, the first moment for a real date is really nerve-racking. You need to consider building up your friendly relationship first before proceeding to the deeper part so to shake off that nervousness in your system. You can do this by cracking jokes that are not too sensual or too cheesy. It will help diffuse any pressure in your body.
#3. Ask questions as a start of your conversation
When you two are on your way to the dating location, you can simply ask questions each other as an ice breaker. Make sure your questions are not too personal or not offensive so that it can go a long way. Instead keep the conversation moving by making funny observations.
#4. Either he or she can ask which food to order to have constant connection while at the table.
Most of us think that the guy should pick up the menu or check the foods to order for both him and his date. In fact, according to research, the girl can also ask him what he is going to get and choose a dish around the same price to ease the tension and be comfortable with each other to make the dining even more fun and you two can eat well. Also, when the check comes, you two can split the bill or if the guy insisted to pay it all, you just don’t push it and let him do his way. A simple “thank you” is enough for him.
#5. Before bidding goodbye to each other, say to him or her what you felt after the date.
Aside from saying goodnight to each other, you can also let each other know what you think about the date. This is to give each other a hold that, if it turns good, there will be a chance to have a second date or if not, you two better stay friends or not if the case went the other way around. And, if the two of you is comfortable with each other, a simple kiss on the cheek of the girl, hug or shake hands is a sign that you two have fun time dating.
In my opinion:
When it is your first date, you need to play it cool and let the guy reach out to you as usual. But don’t be too hard to get. Keep all the things in balance so that you can enjoy the moment together. First date is always exciting and fun if anything could happen. What do you think? Leave us comment guys!